How to Initiate Spiritual Conversations
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In issue #170 of The Seedhead we’re focusing on how to proactively lean into spiritual conversations with your lost friends.
Here’s our experience: you can learn to authentically chat about spiritual matters with people who might otherwise be a long way from Jesus - and you can do so while building (rather than draining) relational capital.
Let’s dive in…
If you won’t initiate spiritual conversations, you can’t claim to love your lost friends well.
“When he saw the crowds, [Jesus] had compassion on them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd. Then he said to his disciples, ‘The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field.’” (Matthew 9:36-38)
Lost people face an eternity without Jesus.
This sobering reality means that we, as followers of Jesus, must take seriously the need to share our faith.
However, most Christians rarely, if ever, do so. This is driven by all sorts of reasons, such as:
Fear of rejection
Not knowing how to talk naturally about Jesus
Feeling ill-equipped to evangelize in a manner that is relational and invitational
We think that it’s vital to know how to initiate spiritual conversations - and in this video we’ll show you how!
In particular we’re going to show you 4 main ways you can proactively, yet relationally, move to spiritual conversations:
1. Offer, “Can I pray for you?”
2. Share your spiritual stories
3. Call out the gold in others
4. Ask open spiritual questions
You’ll find this to be a super-practical, encouraging, and do-able training!
After watching, scroll down to sign-up for the full training on The 6 Gears of Conversation from which this comes!
Here’s the video equipping:
Reflect and Act
Which of the 4 ways do you currently use, and which one(s) do you want to try out.
Over the coming month, how many times will you commit to using these tools? Set a faith goal!
Name another Christian who you’ll ask to hold you accountable for following through. The goal is not shaming or feeling guilty if you don’t manage it! Instead, they can celebrate the wins with you, and help you process the times when you failed/ chickened out/ couldn’t be bothered. ◡̈
Let us know what you do to initiate spiritual conversations, and we’ll update this in the future.
“But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect.” (1 Peter 3:15)
Blessings,
Alex + Hannah
ALEX AND HANNAH ABSALOM
P.S. Don’t forget to sign up for the full training session on the 6 Gears of Conversation on Dec 7! More info below…
Seeding Session: The 6 Gears of Conversation
Our training on how to initiate spiritual conversations is part of a larger resource called The 6 Gears of Conversation.
This virally popular tool is being used internationally by some major Christian organizations due to its biblical, practical, and encouraging nature. And we’d love for YOU to use it to!
NEXT THURSDAY December 7 we’re running a live 1 hour online workshop on The 6 Gears of Conversation- and you’re invited!
Everyone who buys a seat to the training will also receive a full recording, so that you can review the material later (if you can’t make the live recording) AND also use the video to train those you lead.
If you’re there in person, you’ll be able to interact and ask questions of us.
This training is part of our Seeding Sessions. Every two months we host a new live equipping session, and release the video for you to use to train others locally.
The session only costs $49 - which includes the video recording. And if you’re married, your spouse comes for free.
Alternatively you can sign up to be a Seeding Sessions Annual Subscriber - this gives you access to all 6 new trainings, along with recordings of previous Sessions, PLUS two subscriber-only live ‘Ask us anything!’ open coaching calls, and is only $149 for the year.
CLICK HERE FOR FULL INFO ON ALL SEEDING SESSIONS